feelings to attachment to humans make ethics fuzzy
yesterday I was re-reading The Secret History. [spoilers forthcoming] There's this bit near the end about students wondering how their favourite professor would react to knowing they'd murdered someone, and all of a sudden I had this image of my violin students and I was wondering, how I would react if my students told me that they'd done something horrific? Would I go to the police? I was slightly surprised to find that my reaction was a feeble, I would need to think about it.